Some ex-American Idol contestant killed herself outside of Paula Abdul’s house the other day. Today, the New York Post has an interview with the woman’s brother, who blames Paula Abdul for being in the same room as his sister when she humiliated herself.

The brother of the Paula Abdul-obsessed “American Idol” reject who OD’d outside the star’s LA home is blaming Abdul for crushing his sis ter’s dreams and sending her on a downward spiral.

Paula Goodspeed, 30, had withered away to just 78 pounds at the sad end of her life, brought on by eat ing disorders and a broken Hollywood heart, her brother, Charles McIntyre, told The Post yesterday.

Although the grieving sibling disputed tentative police reports that Goodspeed committed suicide in her car, McIntyre said his sister’s “Idol” tryout in 2005 crushed her dreams of stardom.

Goodspeed auditioned for Season 5 of the hit Fox reality show, and her train-wreck performance of “Proud Mary” brought jeers and cutting comments from the three “Idol” judges.

“[Abdul] didn’t speak up for her. She let everyone take her down,” McIntyre told The Post from his home in Maine.

“She [Abdul] said she was ’speechless,’ when she could have said something in her defense.”

Dude, I’m sorry your sister killed herself, but isn’t it kinda your fault? If my sister had mental problems and no singing talent, I would try to steer her away from auditioning for a television show that tends to showcase people with mental problems and no singing talent. Leave Paula alone! All she ever wanted to do was comment vapidly on uninteresting performers while occasionally drifting into some weird drug-induced stupor. She never wanted anyone to die!